Thursday, December 14, 2023

How'd we get from there to here? Adventures in a {really} small town...

Life has a way of surprising us, and recently, we have embarked on an exciting journey of change, new beginnings, and a touch of adventure.

You know that feeling when you decide to take a leap of faith, step out of your comfort zone, and embrace change? Well, that's exactly what happened to us. After careful consideration, I made the decision to leave the Joseph Thomas Foundation, a move that came after lots of prayer, tears and counsel. Just 48 hours later, we were informed that Jeremy would not be allowed to return to TLCA for the next school year. For those in "regular" schools that maybe reading this, TLCA does not offer contracts, you can be relieved of your duties at anytime during the school year. In the eyes of many, it might have seemed like my departure from JTF was solely linked to Jeremy's career change, and while leaving TLCA was not in our plan, the reality is more nuanced. God was orchestrating the narrative of our next chapter. Now, six weeks later, the anticipation and excitement about what lies ahead in this new phase are beyond words. We're ready to dive into the rest of this chapter, embracing the unknown with open hearts and a sense of purpose. Leaving behind the familiar was daunting. After all, our entire family has spent countless hours building two different organizations to what they are today. Deep down, I knew my time at JTF was coming to an end and to continue the vision that I have to serve and advocate for the underserved would require me to turn the page and seek out where God would want me to be next.

So a quick recap- October 30, I resigned from my mission at JTF. To add some adventure, on October 31 Jaxon was bitten in the face by a pit bull on Halloween night while Trick or Treating. November 1, Jeremy was informed he was no longer wanted at TLCA. 

After reality set in our boys were crushed, angry, confused, and shocked. Over the next week they would learn life lessons about perseverance, dedication, dishonesty, and betrayal. It was time for Jeremy and I to hit our knees in prayer. When our boys, that were determined to have perfect attendance, refused to go to school because they "couldn't even look at them [staff and admin]", we knew we had to make some changes, quickly.

I was offered a job at a widely recognized non-profit within three days of my resignation. I knew I was not going to be able to accept the position because we would be relocating but I do feel like God used that job offer as confirmation that I was desperately needing, since both of us became "unemployed" semi-unexpectedly, within 48 hours.  

One week later God began opening doors for our family. November 9 our family was invited to interview at Electra ISD. Yes, our whole family, how cool is that?! 

How is Jay going to handle this, HE'S A SENIOR?

Will I need a job ASAP?

Will there be a special ed program?

Will there be a house big enough for us? 

Not only is it Christmas time, it's the MIDDLE OF THE YEAR!

Again, we prayed and we prayed hard. God answered our prayers in ways I never thought imaginable.

November 13 the boys said goodbye to friends and Jeremy said goodbye to his athletes and they made the move to Electra and started school two days later. The boys and Jeremy lived in our RV until I was able to move with the littles on November 30.

It is no easy opening a new chapter in the book of life. The first day brings a mix of anticipation and eagerness to learn, meet new coworkers, teachers, coaches, and friends, and dive into fresh challenges. And guess what? It's been nothing short of amazing! 

Now, here's the cherry on top –the boys are doing great! As any parent will attest, seeing your children flourish and adapt to change is a priceless reward. Their resilience and ability to adjust to new schools, make new friends, and face the uncertainties that come with change have truly filled my heart with pride. Jay is loving living in a small town, Biscuit is loving basketball and Jaxon has been building his own baseball field in the backyard and his face is healing and I think we will get to avoid another surgery. Michael is making friends quickly. Maddie Jo is enjoying time at home with the mama. Jett is absolutely loving riding the [handicap] accessible bus everyday and Jeremy is adjusting nicely to a lot less duties and being home by 4:30 pm everyday!

We feel incredibly lucky and blessed to be surrounded by a supportive network of old friends and family who have been our pillars during this period of change. Their encouragement, love, and prayers have been invaluable in making this transition a beautiful experience for our entire family. We have had people help us move, clean, unpack, do construction on our new {BIG ENOUGH} house, and more! 

As my time at JTF comes to a close on December 28, my heart is filled with mixed emotions. While I am genuinely saddened at the thought of parting ways with the incredible families I've had the privilege to know, I am equally thrilled about embracing a new ministry. Seeing God's hand in every sentences of the last chapter of our lives gives me an incredible amount of peace. Change can be bittersweet, but I'm ready for the adventures and connections that await in this next beautiful joyful journey.

Change can be daunting, but it's often the catalyst for growth, both personally and professionally. Embracing the unknown, stepping into uncharted territory, and trusting the journey can lead to unexpected and wonderful outcomes. It's a reminder that life is an ever-evolving adventure, and each change is an opportunity for new experiences, challenges, and victories.

As I sit here reflecting on this transformative period, I'm filled with gratitude for the opportunities that have come our way. To anyone contemplating a change in career, considering a new job, or navigating the challenges of change, I encourage you to take that leap. It might just be the beginning of an extraordinary chapter in your life.

Avoid lingering in a space where you don't belong, resist letting others define your value, and seek a place where your contributions are genuinely appreciated. 

Here's to embracing the unknown, chasing dreams, and feeling grateful for the blessings that surround us. May your journey be filled with joy, growth, and the courage to welcome the unknown.

I know it's an overused verse but holding on strong to Jeremiah 29:11-14! !

"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart."

Stay tuned, the adventures are stopping anytime soon.